Because self and others can only be understood in terms of relationship, we see that self-interest and others’ interest are closely interrelated and there is no self-interest completely unrelated to others’ interests. Due to the fundamental interconnectedness which lies at the heart of reality, your interest is also my interest: in a deep sense, “my” interest and “your” interest basically converge.  – His Holiness The 14th  Dalai Lama